The Hidden Struggles of Women in Haryana: Unpacking the Voter Roll Names That Reflect Gender Bias

While reviewing the voter lists from 2002 during the Special Intensive Revision exercise in Haryana, a troubling discovery was made regarding the names of female voters. Among the names, ‘Bhateri’ and ‘Bharpai’ appeared frequently, each carrying connotations that reflect an unsettling reality about gender bias in the region. The term ‘bhatera’ in Haryanvi translates to ‘enough,’ while ‘Bharpai’ suggests something that is surplus or excess. This stark naming trend serves as a mirror to Haryana’s historical preference for sons over daughters.

The demographic imbalances in Haryana have been evident for decades. According to the 1981 Census, the ratio stood at only 870 females for every 1,000 males, a figure that starkly contrasts with the national average of 933. This skewed ratio has roots that delve deep into societal attitudes and practices, particularly in a state where the birth of a daughter is often viewed with disappointment.

Conversations with women from various backgrounds reveal that the stigma associated with these names lingers on. Many women have had to accept the discomfort that comes with their names, which embody the prejudiced views that have been prevalent in the state. One woman, sharing her feelings about being named Bhateri, expressed the emotional toll it takes: “Sister, it does feel deeply unpleasant,” she noted, illustrating the humiliation that often accompanies such labels.

This narrative is not just about names; it speaks to the larger issue of how women are perceived and valued in Haryana. The historical context surrounding female births and the ongoing societal attitudes play a significant role in shaping the identities of these women. Despite progress in recent years, the remnants of gender discrimination are evident, not only in societal norms but also in the very names that women carry.

As Haryana’s demographics continue to evolve, it becomes crucial to recognize and address these biases. Awareness and dialogue can pave the way for a future where names no longer reflect outdated views on gender, and where every daughter is cherished equally as a son. The importance of names, particularly in their connection to identity and societal roles, cannot be overstated. As the state grapples with its past, the hope is that future generations will bear names that inspire pride, not discomfort.

Source: scroll.in